Mechanics

It is easy to think that the MEN in your life should be the ones to help you take your car to the shop. The MEN can have a good old boy conversation and you will get your car back quicker and for less money.

I say, nope.

I do all the mechanic stuff. I've got a guy. (I don't have a girl mechanic, but I would love to say I have a girl). Actually I have a few guys. I have the oil change guy and the harder repairs guy. I have the window ding guy and the guy with the computer-thingy to plug into the car to make the engine light stop incessantly blinking. And if I go somewhere and feel like the mechanic is not making a connection with me, I don't go back. It's ok not to go back.

My mechanics are helpful and cheerful. They enjoy the car banter. They really want to take care of the car and me. They take time to explain what is going on and show me the corroded part. I nod. I don't understand, but they give me enough info to process why the bill is going to be what it is.

Best advice I can give to women is to find the garage who can help YOU. Use referrals. Ask on Facebook. Leave a garage you don't feel comfortable at and find one who welcomes you. You don't have to use the import garage, or the dealer garage. Find the independent mechanic who loves what he does and smiles when your car pulls in. And for the best deal? Pay in cash.